experience

I said I hav stones in my gall bladder.i hav to get operated.
The administration:we hav to call for a medical board to review ur situation as we cannot allow u leave.
Actually it is serious, I tried to explain.I am restless with severe stomach ache and nausea My voice choked and trembled due to apathy and the pathology both.I put up my leave application , medical reports and prescriptions expecting some soft words.But, came the reaction--how many days rest will u require?
I said I don'nt know , the doctor will tell me.
Administration:how to get the government work done under such conditions.

which career should I follow

The undergradutes generally ask this question.I tell them:
listen to ur heart.what do u lov to do?
Then comes the popular quote:if u follow ur passion or hobby u will not be working even a single day.

Broadly , there are foll 3 options:

Go for still hr studies only if u are interested.
Join a job if u wish to.
If interested one can start a small enterprise.

One should opt a career of choice and not compulsion.

Share your dream !

This definitely excites young people.
You must share what u wish to do in life.
Certainly not everyone will feel free to share their dreams.
Then I generally say does not matter even if u want to act in movies, or be a singer or a chef, no problem in sharing because we are just dicussing dreams.
Then one after the other they open up.
Then the awaited one:mam if I really wish to join movies.
I say:it is a great idea, but u have to be methodical about pursuing any career.

The most important thing: after a certain age do not keep expecting from parents to fund your travel , training and course expenses.
By the time u finish ur graduation or at the most post graduation u must be able to share financial responsibility.